In America, hate terms get applied to you when you don’t compete fair. If you resort to cheating, bullying, manipulation, control tactics, back door behind-the-scenes negotiations, or illegal and/or unethical activity, to keep a group down and in pain, or simply to outcompete them–or to outcompete any individual in that group when using group hate language and reasoning to accomplish your ends–you are considered a “hater.” Some examples of haters are: racists, misogynists, and homophobes.
Lilly Lekhan, Poet and Founder of The Sweetest Art List